Adult Dating: Find Romance and Friendship Worldwide Through Adult Dating Online

Adult Dating Online is the largest database of online personal ads and a perfect adult dating service to help you quickly and easily find fun, friendly singles with similar interests for romance or friendship. Find the perfect match by location, age and lifestyle. 

There are several ways to find someone there:

Browse the ads  - Go cruising through the headlines. Go broad (or abroad). It's hip. It's groovy. Choose a large category like Geographic Location and see who's out there.

Find a match - Looking for something specific? A '67 model, in good shape, lots of headroom, and doesn't smoke? Get particular. You can look for 97 year-old Samoans in Siberia (good luck!)

Mailbox search - You know the mailbox number of the ad you're looking for. You're dying to see it again. Enter the number below.

Introduce yourself to the millions of signals who are searching the web- click Adult Dating Service now!

What's an AGENT OF LOVE?
The AGENT OF LOVE is our way of providing you with new ads that meet your personal criteria.

The AGENT OF LOVE will scan all incoming ads daily and e-mail you all the ones that match your preferences.  It's easy, it's fast and it's free!

Get your own AGENT OF LOVE
To create your AGENT OF LOVE profile, simply select create a new profile, then enter your e-mail address.  Decide on the details that make up your own unique set of preferences and the AGENT will take it from there.  

What happens then?
Wait till you see what happens - matches, matches, and more matches!  And there's more good news.  Once you see a match, you simply join our AYCE club and begin making contact.  What could be easier?

Want to change your AGENT OF LOVE profile?
No problem!  If you have an existing profile, you can change your preferences at any time.  Select change my profile, enter your e-mail address and you can create a whole new you!

As a member of the AYCE Club, you can reply to an unlimited number of ads. AYCE Club members, fill out the form to reply to an ad.   You must be an AYCE club member in order to respond to ads. If you are not an AYCE Club Member, your message cannot be sent from this page.

Joining One & Only comes with lots of perks - unlimited searching, your own personal Agent of Love, helpful advice from Romance Central, as well as membership in the AYCE club! Our acronym for "all you can e-mail", the AYCE club enables you to contact as many people here at One & Only as you want - over 250,000 potential playmates to meet and mingle with!

Need help writing an ad? Remember - the best way to receive more responses is to write an ad that’s exciting, interesting and honest, and by attaching a photo that will light up a room.  But you say, “I’m not sure what to write” - check out our ad tips and classic ads for some helpful inspiration.

Show don't tell. For example, it is much more effective to use humor in your ad rather than just saying "I have a sense of humor". Show that you are an educated and intelligent person through interesting word choice, clear ad structure, and colorful and creative descriptions.

Creativity counts.  A personal ad can take many forms.  A poem, perhaps.  One amazing ad consisted entirely of titles -- one right after another -- of popular motion pictures, carefully chosen and arranged to describe the ad placer.

Show them what YOU would want to know.  Make a list of the most important things that you would like to know about a person before responding to an ad. Chances are, others would like to know the same about you. If you work, in what field?  Have you ever been married before? Do you have children?  Are you looking to make some new friends, or do you want find one special person to settle down with for a lifetime?  Keep in mind that common goals are often more important in a relationship than individual interests.

Age isn't everything, but...  It is where a lot of people start.  Be sure to include your age in the ad; if you do not want to give your exact age, narrow the range: "early twenties" or "mid forties" for example.  If you are fifty but feel thirty, say so?  If you are looking for someone outside your age range, give a range for the person you seek as well.  Keep in mind that some people will be suspicious of a range that seems too wide -- such as "twenty to sixty", and this may limit responses.  Likewise, a range too narrow (one to two years) also seems odd.  Even those who fall in the narrow range might be hesitant to respond.  Stating your age, and avoiding ranges altogether, is generally the best approach.

Describe yourself first.  Be careful to avoid creating an ad that is simply a mile-long list of characteristics you seek in another, without saying much about yourself.  It is better to let the person reading the ad decide if they might be a match.  This does not mean that you should say nothing about what you seek, just don't overdo it.  You do not want to be too picky.

Details, details.  How many times have you read a personal ad that states:  "I enjoy movies, music, and going out."?  This sentence describes millions of people!  The idea is to make yourself stand out from the rest!  Instead, name a recent movie that you enjoyed.  List some of your favorite music styles, song titles, or artists.  If you enjoy going out to Italian restaurants, or line-dancing at a country bar on Saturday nights, say so!  Ironically, it is the very details that are often overlooked as being insignificant or boring which in fact add the color and depth necessary for a personal ad to be truly effective.

Honesty is the best policy.  Above all, be honest when describing yourself.  No matter who you are, or what kind of person you are seeking, you have a better chance of finding that person -- and with less disappointment along the way -- if you are honest from the beginning.

Scratch a thumbnail, see an ad. Select a category  to see what we mean.

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